Mengapa Wanita Bisa Berselingkuh? Bukan Karena Nafsu, Tapi Karena Sepi

Perselingkuhan. Kata yang langsung memicu amarah, rasa sakit, dan penghakiman. Saat seorang wanita berselingkuh, dunia seakan membenarkan untuk menunjuk dan mengutuknya — tanpa bertanya, tanpa mencoba mengerti.

Tapi, pernahkah kita berhenti sejenak… dan bertanya:
“Apa yang sebenarnya membuat seorang perempuan mendua?”

Dalam pencarian ini, saya mewawancarai sepuluh perempuan dari berbagai latar: dari ibu rumah tangga di desa, wanita karier di kota, hingga mereka yang hidup di lorong-lorong dunia malam. Jawaban mereka membuka sisi lain dari sebuah pengkhianatan, yang ternyata… tidak selalu lahir dari niat untuk menghancurkan.

Sebagian besar dari mereka mengaku tidak selingkuh karena bosan, apalagi karena ingin “nakal”.
Mereka selingkuh karena terlalu lama merasa sendiri.

Karena ada malam-malam panjang yang diisi dengan air mata, saat pasangan lebih sibuk dengan dunia di luar rumah. Karena ada momen-momen kecil yang diabaikan — ucapan selamat pagi yang tak lagi ada, pelukan yang tak lagi hangat, dan mata yang tak lagi benar-benar melihat.

Salah satu dari mereka berkata,

“Aku tahu itu salah… Tapi rasanya lebih salah lagi saat aku terus menunggu, dan tak pernah lagi dianggap ada.”

Ini bukan tulisan untuk membenarkan.
Ini juga bukan pembelaan.

Ini hanyalah undangan… untuk mendengar.
Karena dalam setiap pengkhianatan, ada hati yang pernah setia. Ada cinta yang pernah berharap. Ada luka yang tidak terlihat.

Dan mungkin… jika kita lebih dulu mau saling memahami, sebelum saling menyalahkan,
cerita seperti ini tak perlu terjadi.

Prompt Pembuatan Video di Google Veo 3

A natural-looking 8-second video of a young woman with shoulder-length black hair smiling gently while sitting relaxed on the edge of a modest rural house porch. She wears a light gray knitted long-sleeve sweater and black shorts, with one leg casually propped on the railing. She has on black slip-on sandals. The background shows an old building with exposed bricks, a satellite dish on the roof, and two parked motorcycles nearby. The sky is clear blue with scattered clouds, creating a calm, honest village atmosphere. She looks toward the camera and says in Indonesian, “Sebagai bentuk balas dendam atas luka lama.”

A realistic 8-second video of a confident woman standing indoors in front of a wooden door. She wears a light bluish-gray short dress with open sleeves and thin spaghetti straps. The dress is ruched at the chest and flows softly at the bottom. She poses naturally, gently holding the edge of her dress, showcasing a modern, elegant silhouette. The indoor lighting gives the scene a soft, natural feel. From off-camera, a man asks in Indonesian, “Kenapa wanita berselingkuh?” The woman turns to face the camera and replies in Indonesian, “Karena bosan dalam hubungan.”

An 8-second natural-looking video of a young woman relaxing on a net hammock outdoors, surrounded by lush tropical greenery. She wears a fitted plaid dress with spaghetti straps, and her long hair is partially tied back. One arm is raised behind her head as she sits comfortably with a relaxed expression and a faint smile. A man off-camera asks in Indonesian, “Kenapa wanita berselingkuh?” The woman calmly responds in Indonesian, “Karena tidak benar-benar mencintai pasangannya.”

An 8-second natural and realistic video of a young woman sitting calmly on large rocks by the beach. She wears a light beige knitted sweater and soft gray high-waisted pants. Her long, straight dark brown hair flows freely as she gently touches her head with one hand. Beside her are a smartphone and a small bag with a gold chain strap. The background shows a calm sea with soft rolling waves, creating a peaceful, aesthetic, and reflective atmosphere. She looks slightly off-camera and says in Indonesian, “Kenapa wanita berselingkuh? Ya karena merasa tidak dihargai dan tidak dianggap, itu menurut aku.”

An 8-second natural and realistic video of a young Asian woman with long straight black hair, wearing a sleeveless maroon tank dress, sitting relaxed on a bed or soft surface. The background features neutral-colored curtains. She has a calm, relaxed expression and looks directly at the camera with a slight smile. The lighting is soft and indoor, with natural skin tones and gentle shadows, creating a casual indoor portrait feel focused on her upper body. She speaks clearly in Indonesian, saying, “Kalau aku karena kebutuhan fisik tidak terpenuhi, jadinya aku selingkuh.”

An 8-second natural and realistic video of a smiling woman with long straight black hair standing outdoors in a lush garden area. She wears a bright yellow sweater with a musical note pattern and holds a clear glass coffee cup with a blue plastic lid on a transparent saucer, offering it toward the camera. The background shows greenery, trees, and a small rustic wooden building. The scene feels warm, friendly, and natural, captured in daylight with a relaxed countryside atmosphere. She looks at the camera and says in Indonesian, “Gimana enggak selingkuh mas, suami aja kerja di luar negeri, pulangnya 3 tahun sekali.”

An 8-second natural and realistic video of a beautiful Indonesian woman with long straight black hair sitting on a sofa inside a karaoke room. She wears a short red dress and holds a microphone in one hand. The background features sparkling lights, indicating a lively nightlife entertainment setting. A man off-camera asks in Indonesian, “Alasan kamu berselingkuh apa?” The woman laughs freely and replies in Indonesian, “Enak mas, bisa ngerasain punya yang lain.”